Three Fundamental Techniques in Handling People

Technique 1: Don't criticize, condemn or complain.

"If you want to gather honey, don't kick over the beehive."
Reflection:I think this first technique is really true all though that everyone does this at a point, but some people don’t need to criticize others by the way that they look ...if those people who criticize others don’t like it when people talk about them they should stop. Usually mostly everyone that I know complains about many things either the phone food, places they don’t like,ect…

Technique 2: Give honest and sincere appreciation
"The big secret in dealing with people"
Reflection:This means being real with people. Be thankful for what they do for you or anyone/anything else. We should be honest. never lie, it makes the person feel bad. Being sincere is accepting what people give you or do for you. We should always be thankful with what we get or have.
"He who can do this has the whole world with him. He who cannot,walks a lonely way."
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Final Reflection:
 When you are talking to someone you do not want to give the impression that you are annoyed or bored while having a conversation. When someone enjoys doing something you don't, you shouldn't criticize because then you will hurt the other person and they will not trust you or maybe even like you. I feel that when you are talking to someone you need to show interest, If you want to gain friends you need to show that you are interested. When you judge a person it makes them feel as though you don't like them because of the things they like. What I will do is I will not judge or criticize when I am talking to them because I would like to be trusted and a good friend. I want people to like talking to me. I feel that I would like to be spoken to without being judged on the things that I like. I would like to gain more friends so I will do this so I can.