Friday, January 22, 2016






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Habit 1: Be Proactive
Habit 2: Begin with the end in mind
Habit 3: Put first things first
Habit 4: Think win-win
Habit 5: Seek first to understand, and then to be understood
Habit 6: Synergize
Habit 7: Sharpen the saw



Habit 1: Be Proactive
"Habit 1 is the key to unlocking all the other habits and that's why it comes first. it says, "I am the captain of my life. i can choose my attitude. I'm responsible for my own happiness. i am in the driver's seat of my destiny, not just a passenger."
Reflection: Proactive people have self-awareness and they do what they want. they control their lives the way they want it to be. they know that when they are unhappy it is because of their fault they know they are choosing the wrong choice. they also know they are the only ones that could change their own lives. they have imagination and they believe that whatever they set their mind to they can do it.
Habit 2: Begin with the end in mind
"Control your own destiny or someone else will."(Jack Welch)
Reflection: to control your own destiny is that you are the only one to know where you want to stand in life, you you dont control your life someone else that will just pressure you to do something will change your live and change they way you think things, and you want to be able to control your life without anyone telling you anything.
Habit 3: Put First Things First
"Organize and execute around priorities."
Reflection:I think this quote means that …for example if you want to become a business person or a customer service person the first priority would be to be organize, at times you have to put the things that go first like a puzzle you might start from middle but the best way would be to start from the corners and work your way in.
Habit 4: Think Win-Win
"Think win-win or no deal."
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Habit 5: Seek First to Understand, then to be Understood
"Diagnose before you prescribe."
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Habit 6: Synergize
Image result for synergize"The whole is greater than the sun of its parts (1+1=3)"
Reflection:i think this this mean that working together you can accomplish more by working together is better than working individually. it helps you get more
Synergy is better than my way or your way. It's our way.
Habit 7: Sharpen The Saw
Four Dimensions of self-Renewal: Physical,Mental,Spiritual,Social/Emotional
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Over All Reflection: i think these Habits help us in life by preparing us 

Monday, January 11, 2016

          Three Fundamental Techniques in Handling People

Technique 1: Don't criticize, condemn or complain.

"If you want to gather honey, don't kick over the beehive."
Reflection:I think this first technique is really true all though that everyone does this at a point, but some people don’t need to criticize others by the way that they look ...if those people who criticize others don’t like it when people talk about them they should stop. Usually mostly everyone that I know complains about many things either the phone food, places they don’t like,ect…

Technique 2: Give honest and sincere appreciation
"The big secret in dealing with people"
Reflection:This means being real with people. Be thankful for what they do for you or anyone/anything else. We should be honest. never lie, it makes the person feel bad. Being sincere is accepting what people give you or do for you. We should always be thankful with what we get or have.
"He who can do this has the whole world with him. He who cannot,walks a lonely way."
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Final Reflection:
 When you are talking to someone you do not want to give the impression that you are annoyed or bored while having a conversation. When someone enjoys doing something you don't, you shouldn't criticize because then you will hurt the other person and they will not trust you or maybe even like you. I feel that when you are talking to someone you need to show interest, If you want to gain friends you need to show that you are interested. When you judge a person it makes them feel as though you don't like them because of the things they like. What I will do is I will not judge or criticize when I am talking to them because I would like to be trusted and a good friend. I want people to like talking to me. I feel that I would like to be spoken to without being judged on the things that I like. I would like to gain more friends so I will do this so I can.
                    School Break Days!!!
What i did on my breaks was the i went to Arizona to visit my cousins and i had a great time there Arizona is beautiful, i would like to live there someday :). Will i was there i went out with my cousins they took me to fun places in Arizona we went golfing, shopping,and restaurants. My cousins and i went to the movies theaters we watched 'concussion' and 'Daddy's Home' they were both really good movies, i liked 'Daddy's Home' best because it was a really funny movie. On Christmas and New Years we had a family dinner and it was fun eating as a family and playing games. Arizona is a more quiet state its more nice and there's many fun places to go.